A couple weeks ago, I was catching up with my Aunt, and we
were discussing my sister’s up-coming wedding.
Which, led to a discussion of my lack of a relationship.
My Aunt told me to pray to Saint Jude.
Now, growing up Catholic, and having attending 12 years of
Catholic school, I should know what Saint Jude is the patron of… but, I did
not. So, I asked. And, my Aunt said, “He’s the patron saint of
impossible cases.” I immediately
laughed. I suppose some could have taken
that as an insult. But, I thought it was
so appropriate. I mean, how often do I
feel like I’m just a hopeless case, destined to be alone forever? More often than I care to admit.
I like to be in control. And, in instances where it's impossible to control the situation, I create an illusion of control. I often forget that ultimately, I need to surrender to God, and put my faith in Him. Don't get my wrong. I don't think that praying I'm good at relationships, will somehow miraculously make me good at them. I still have to do the work. But, God can put people in my path, and make certain experiences possible, that will ultimately make me good at relationships. He provides the path I need to take to reach my goals.
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