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Romancing Yourself



And, hello three day weekend!

It has been quite a couple of weeks, and I’m very happy to say that work has gradually started to turn from completely and utterly insane, to just utterly insane.  I’m really going to relish the quiet time of this weekend.

I recently watched a TV show episode, which featured the importance of small gestures.  I feel starved for romance.  And, I love me some romance.  I mean, who doesn’t dream of the guy that actually comes to your door to pick you up for a date, and who takes your hand when you walk somewhere together, or even the simple act of showing up with a pizza and a bottle of wine after work, when they know that you’ve had a rough day?  I’m not looking for lavish gifts or flowers on the regular, just some thoughtful gestures. 

Surprisingly, the person I love did think of me this Valentine’s Day.  He gave me an incredibly thoughtful gift that couldn’t be more me.  And, even more surprisingly, he gave the gift to me a week early, after I told him I had had a bad day.  He can be incredibly kind and thoughtful when he wants to be.

I consider myself to be single, but am I?  I’m not quiet sure.  Regardless, since I am embracing self-love, it got me thinking… Can I romance myself?  Honestly, I’m not quiet sure that the impact will be the same as if someone else did these things, but it’s certainly nice to pamper yourself. 

I am excited to report that this Valentine’s Day weekend, I will be making myself some red velvet pancakes, painting my nails, and indulging in a little shopping. 

Below are some great options for romancing oneself that I want to keep in my repertoire for future use:

  • Buy yourself some flowers.
  • Take yourself out to dinner.
  • Take yourself out for a mani/pedi.
  • Buy some lingerie to wear to bed or under your clothes.
  • Go out to a movie.
  • Go to the theatre or ballet.
  • Indulge in a decadent dessert.
  • Play hooky from work and do whatever you want.
  • Go out for breakfast at a cute bistro.
  • Go out to listen to music/jazz.

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