This Emotion Will Destroy Your Love Life

This video has such a powerful message. I am so guilty of not doing things because I'm afraid of how I'll look, or that people will think I'm silly, or stupid. That's pride. While I have erased pride in some areas of my life, there are many, many, many others that I still need to go through, and actively weed out this destructive emotion.

I love that Matthew says that we must be students in our own lives, because ultimately, that's what I've been trying to do. I am trying to learn as much as I can from every experience I go through. It can be from watching people interact on the train during my commute, how I interact with someone at work, how I stand up for myself with a family member, or how I watch a neighbor treat others. Regardless of whether the lesson was positive or negative, at least I know what works, and what doesn't. And, thus, can put this knowledge and experience to use in my own life, to positively affect those around me.

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Happy April Fools' Day!

I'm not a very creative person, and have never come up with something truly funny to do to my friends, family, or any roommates I've had over the years. Maybe one day I'll be able to put some of the ideas below to good use. Until then... these are just amusing.

There is No Gain Without Struggle

We all struggle with something. In our moments of struggle, it's impossible to think that other people could possibly be feeling the same hurt, frustration, and loneliness we are. Remember you are not alone. Struggling is a part of being human. Without it, we would not appreciate the good things that we have. Today, recognize that without struggle, we are not driven to be better. You are better today, than you were yesterday. Just keep going! Keep taking steps every day to work towards your goals of personal development.

Blessed

Ahh… the holidays are officially here and in full swing. I had the most lovely visit with my family over Thanksgiving. I am so blessed!! We ate way too much, watched way too much football for my taste, and really just hunkered down for a couple of days enjoying each other’s company. I didn’t even mind all the stuff everywhere. J I felt sad and lonely after everyone left on Saturday. Luckily, I’ll get to see them again in a few weeks!! There were many lessons learned over those couple of days. For one, I need to maintain a healthy and active mind. I also, need to stay on top of my hearing and monitor the progression of loss. After being around my parents for a few days, I see my future, and I’m screwed. LOL. I paid attention at how my parents and my sister and her girlfriend interacted, and I can see evidence of the importance of maintaining open communication, and remaining fr...

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